Netflix and Chill
When grown-ups hear the phrase "Netflix and Chill" most of the time they think of watching a show on Netflix and relaxing. When teenagers hear the phrase it is code for having sex. As in "my parents aren't going to be home tonight, we should Netflix and chill tonight."
While this may be a shock to you, this phrase has been around for a while and there are newer terms that teen use as code for sex. Below are 10 phrases that teens use as code for sex.
Jeepin = sex in a vehicle
Doing Laundry = having sex
Making Cookies = having sex
Scooping = touching a girl under her clothes
Candy = having sex (ie. want some candy)
Getting Georgia = oral sex
Bobblehead = a girl who performs oral sex on a boy
Chicken Party = a party a where a girl performs oral sex on boys
Givin' Up the Gold = a girl givin' up her virginity
Pron = porn
If you see these while reviewing your teens text messages (which you should do on a regular basis) you will know what they are. My advice would be not to freak out on them, rather have a calm discussion about what is going on in your teen's life.
Mike has worked with teens and parents for 14+ years. Mike has been married to Natalie for over 10 years. They love living near downtown Holland. Mike prides himself on being left-handed and even has a left-handed clock in his office that confuses the majority of those who glance at it!